If two or more of the people are established lovers, it can work well for them to seduce the other(s), taking the initiative, and acting as hosts.Having an established relationship,they probably have more room not to be paying attention to each other every minute - if they are secure enough to be comfortable with this, it can take the pressure off other people.
Make sure you have plenty of supplies on hand. This list will vary depending on what you are doing; mine includes appropriate latex, both paper and cloth towels, ice water to drink, a waste paper basket with a waterproof liner, lube, massage oil, extra sheets, toys, good firm pillows, and a bathroom that you don't have to get dressed to use.
Talk. And be honest. Spend some time talking before you do anything - maybe in a neutral space. Talk while you're having sex - about what you like and don't like, try different things, etc. Talk after, too. Maybe a little while after - sometimes people need time to process.
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