Why it appeals to you:" The "safe rape" is a very common female fantasy ‑- but it's such a far cry from the real thing it seems ridiculous to even call it rape. Passionate and forceful, but never violent or painful, the "rapes" in our head differ because we're always in control, even though we're being "forced" to submit.
Why he'll love it too: Being the physical aggressor is taboo for men. Being given a "harmless" outlet to let loose some deeply primitive urges without being punished is appealing.
What you'll need to act it out: A quiet bedroom and a mirror.
The action plan:You're naked while he's dressed in street clothes (a dark suit would play up the mysterious stranger element). You're in your bedroom, admiring your body with your hands and your eyes in a full-length mirror. He sneaks up silently behind you, covers your eyes with his hands and says,Shhh! I won't hurt you. But you have to do exactly as I say. You freeze and pretend to be terrified. You're not sure what to do, knowing that he'll overpower you if you try to get away. He waits for you to calm down and for your breathing to become regular again. Meanwhile, you're conscious of the sensation of your naked skin against the roughness of his clothes ‑- and you're oddly excited by it.
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