Start slow, but for heaven's sake, do start. Most people aren't going to be comfortable stripping off their clothes immediately and fucking, but nothing makes people feel shyer than sitting around staring at each other and not knowing what to do next. Backrubs and foot rubs are wonderful icebreakers - try suggesting them. Silly party games can work pretty well, too.
(Actually, there are a lot of somewhat gimmicky things that can help break the ice. Undressing is sometimes awkward - wearing togas, or appearing in some other state of semi undress or at least not standard dress can get past it. Eating strawberries and whipped cream off one person can get things moving. The list is endless - imagination can be a wonderful thing.)
If you have a somewhat large group of people, sitting in a circle with one person (which one is alternated, usually) in the center can be a good way to have fun and still keep the group together. It's very important the central person, in particular, expresses what is and what isn't okay with them - getting all that attention can be nice, but it can also be a little overwhelming. (in my experience, such arrangements usually break up into less formal clusters of people after a certain amount of momentum is achieved - but it's a great way to get moving.)
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